by Michael Ingram
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30 Jun, 2023
Greetings, everyone! Today, I want to share a heartfelt blog post about the challenges my partner, Kirsty, and I have faced this month. To be honest, it hasn't been an easy journey. On May 13th, during my Nuclear Race event, Kirsty unfortunately broke her hand. Dealing with the healthcare system has been quite frustrating, as we've faced numerous scheduling conflicts and miscommunications among doctors, leading to delays in her treatment. It turns out that her previous hand injury, which occurred a few years ago, was not properly addressed by the hospital at the time. They only conducted one X-ray before discharging her, neglecting to follow proper procedures. Now, it appears that she not only has a fracture but also a cyst in her scaphoid bone. Surprisingly, the suggested course of action from the doctors has been to do nothing and hope for the issue to resolve on its own. It's disheartening to think that the initial mishandling of her injury may have contributed to this current complication. Meanwhile, I underwent dental surgery recently, which may not be classified as a major procedure, but my fear of dentists made it quite daunting for me. Due to past negative experiences and my high resistance to most forms of local anesthesia, I had been waiting for this surgery for several years. Over time, I was referred to multiple dental clinics without success in finding a suitable form of sedation or anesthesia. Additionally, I finally had a sleep nasendoscopy to address my sleep apnea, a condition I've been living with since I was 16. For 18 years, I've sought answers from my hospital regarding the cause of my sleep apnea, only to be met with dismissive responses emphasizing weight as the primary issue. It reached a breaking point a few years ago when a doctor agreed to investigate if I consistently used a CPAP mask for three months. Yet, after completing this requirement, he reneged on his promise and returned to the familiar refrain of "You're overweight, use your CPAP machine." Frustrated, I sought help elsewhere and eventually underwent a sleep nasendoscopy. The results revealed that my nose had been broken internally, likely during childhood, and left untreated. This has caused a significant blockage in my airways, necessitating three separate surgical interventions: repairing my nose, undergoing a tonsillectomy, and having my uvula raised and throat widened. Once these procedures are completed, I will likely be free from sleep apnea. Furthermore, it's become apparent that the CPAP machine provided minimal assistance due to the underlying issue, and weight loss has been exceedingly challenging for me. Reflecting on these health-related challenges, it's evident that this month has taken a toll on both Kirsty and me. However, we've been there for each other throughout these difficulties. Our love for one another is profound and has played an instrumental role in shaping the people we are today. It's important to remember that we are not alone in facing life's troubles. Recently, I've had conversations with individuals on Twitter and at the gym who have their own share of problems. While Kirsty and I have been feeling down, we decided to reignite our passion for a game we both adore—a game that she actually introduced me to: Terraria. Funny enough, she managed to trick me into playing it a few years ago. Knowing my fondness for pixel art games, side-scrollers, and hack-and-slash adventures, she presented Terraria as a game where we could indulge in all those elements together. Little did I know that while I embarked on killing sprees, she would focus on constructing elaborate buildings. You see, Kirsty possesses a genuine love for building and crafting games like The Sims and House Flipper, while I thrive on the thrill of platforming and combat. Together, we form an incredible team within the world of Terraria. We've decided to start fresh with new characters once again, this time tackling Master Mode in a Drunk world—a combination that promises an adventurous experience. And during this playthrough, Kirsty has crafted a delightful Rainbow Pride house, which seems fitting to share with all of you on the final day of Pride month.